Deborah Pearce Hypnotherapy Deborah Pearce

Solution Focused Hypnotherapy in and around East Devon

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Happy New Year!

As we say goodbye to 2019 I would like to wish everyone a very Happy New Year.

 

Soooo excited to see what the coming year, and of course decade, will bring.  2019 was an eventful year, with the inevitable ups and downs that make life interesting.  It was by far the busiest year ever in my East Devon hypnotherapy practice and here are some of the highlights:

 

I was lucky enough to be invited to join the team at Orchard Osteopaths in Chard last January, and that quickly became a very busy clinic.  I was also fortunate to find a new therapy room in Ottery St Mary in February at Pure Therapy, when my previous room became unavailable. It’s a lovely, relaxing space and that, too, has been very successful.  The established therapy rooms in Sidmouth and Axminster were busier than ever, too.

 

I continued to run the 10-month hypnotherapy diploma courses on behalf of CPHT (Clifton Practice Hypnotherapy Training) in both Guildford and Manchester.  Although, in order to be able to focus on our own practices, my business partners and I have decided to retire from lecturing. We have already handed CPHT Manchester over to two wonderful colleagues, and this will be our last CPHT Guildford course.  We are so pleased that two highly successful and experienced former graduates of ours will be taking the Guildford school forward.  It’s been a fun and fascinating 5 years, and we will miss seeing the students gain in confidence and skill.

 

In addition to lecturing on the main diploma courses, I was also invited to deliver marketing sessions at CPHT Hampshire and at our professional association’s conference in November.  In September I delivered a course All About Sleep at the Health and Wellbeing Centre in Axminster, and a week later gave a more technical version to qualified hypnotherapists as a CPD course at CPHT Bristol. All mighty enjoyable.

 

A fantastic co-working space for solo workers opened up in Sidmouth last January, The Lighthouse in Mill Street.  It provides a fab environment for self-employed or home-workers to be in the company of others to prevent them going stir-crazy or withdrawn.  They put on excellent events and masterclasses, and I am so pleased to be a member.  It has been great networking with other business people and sharing knowledge and experience between us.

 

On the business side, I focused on my online marketing, and have been posting on Facebook and updating my blog regularly.  I really enjoy researching news from the world of hypnotherapy, neuroscience and general well-being, so that I can share the latest findings with clients.

 

I consider myself fortunate to have a career that enables me to help others, both in the therapy room through regular Solution Focused Hypnotherapy sessions, and in general through delivering training. It’s so rewarding to see clients make huge changes and ultimately get a better enjoyment of life.  I meet many wonderful people in the therapy room and I am constantly impressed by their determination and resilience.

 

So, what's in store for us in 2020?  I am a big fan of psychologist Professor Richard Wiseman, and often quote his research about luck and opportunities: we make our own luck by being in a good head space, to be able to see opportunities when they present themselves.

 

As Richard Wiseman’s work shows, life is what we make it. And so much of that is down to how we respond to the events in our lives.  Wishing you all the very best for a fun-filled, eventful and successful 2020, full of opportunities.

 

Happy New Year!

What to Expect during a Hypnotherapy Session

I remember my first ever massage, back in the 90s. I was so nervous, as I didn’t know what to expect.  Years later, when I trained to be a massage therapist, I never forgot how daunting that first session can be, and took steps to reassure new clients.

 

It can be the same with hypnotherapy, especially as the media often portray hypnosis as some kind of mind control, or talking therapists as Sigmund Freud lookalikes.

 

So, here’s what to expect if you attend Solution Focused Hypnotherapy (SFH)…

 

First, it’s worth noting that Solution Focused Hypnotherapy isn’t something that is done to you, it’s something that you work at with guidance from your therapist. As with anything worth doing, you do have to put some effort in, in order to get the best results.  The results are often life-changing.

 

We offer an initial consultation where we gather information about you – basic name and address  stuff, information about your current lifestyle, general wellbeing and sleeping patterns, and of course the reason you are seeking help.  Having gathered enough information to understand your current situation and your preferred future, we make an assessment about the most appropriate course of therapy.

 

We then explain how the brain works and how it can manifest a variety of emotional, behavioural or physical symptoms.   We help you to understand  how SFH can help you to retrain your brain to support you, rather than thwart you.

 

Some SFH therapists charge for the initial consultation, some offer it free.  I currently provide this session free of charge, remembering how daunting reaching out for help can be. The initial consultation lasts around 30-45 minutes.

 

Subsequent sessions last 50 to 55 minutes and consist of a period of Solution Focused talking therapy, followed by a period of hypnotic  trance to help your brain evaluate and consolidate the work we have done during the first part.  Often clients think that the magic happens during hypnosis.  The truth is that, with SFH, the talking element is at least as important as the trance work, and focuses on positive outcomes.  We actively discourage you from discussing negative events from the past, and instead use solution focused questioning techniques to encourage you to think about positive outcomes, which of course can be quite challenging at times. The results are worth it though.

 

Hypnosis and trance are very powerful words.  And so they should be, as the hypnotic trance is a very powerful state.  Powerful, but ultimately natural.  It’s very similar to daydreaming, where you are able to do something on auto-pilot, like peeling potatoes or doing the ironing, while your mind wanders, remembering past events or anticipating future possibilities.  And it’s a very relaxing experience.

 

Some therapists use a massage couch (folding bed) for the trance work, whilst others use a reclining or comfortable chair.  I prefer to use a massage couch and am lucky to have one in each of the therapy rooms where I work.

 

Oh, and I don’t look like Sigmund Freud.

 

Have you ever wondered about the difference between hypnosis and hypnotherapy?

Put simply, hypnosis is the act of guiding someone into a hypnotic trance, whereas hypnotherapy combines hypnosis with some form of talking therapy (psychotherapy)

 

So, when you see a hypnotherapist, the session usually starts with the talking therapy, eg psychoanalysis, CBT, NLP, counselling or Solution Focused therapy. This is designed to provide you with some level of insight into your situation.

 

Once the talking therapy is complete, the therapist will then use hypnosis, guiding you into a relaxed trance.  This is a very powerful state, which provides the ideal environment for your mind to assimilate what’s been discussed and gain a fresh perspective.

 

Both elements are equally as important, although it’s not unusual for clients to believe that it’s all about the hypnosis.  So, if you are seeking hypnotherapy, don’t be surprised if at least half of the therapy session involves talking with the therapist.

 

The same principle applies to the difference between hypnotherapists and hypnotists.  Generally speaking, the word ‘hypnotist’ refers to someone who performs stage hypnosis as a form of entertainment, although this isn’t a hard and fast rule.  There are hypnotherapists who refer to themselves as hypnotists as a matter of personal preference.

 

Merging talking therapy with hypnosis results in a very powerful combination, and of course the hypnosis is usually incredibly relaxing and enjoyable.

Getting a good night’s sleep

Over the years I have helped hundreds of clients improve the quality of their sleep, and there are several common themes that crop up time and time again. 

Here are the top three factors that have contributed to those clients getting a good night’s sleep:

 

1.  Avoid letting everyday pressures impact on how much sleep you get

 

It may be that there a number of difficult issues that you are coping with at the moment, and you are worrying about them constantly.  Going to bed with a head full of worries or loose ends will make sleep more elusive.  Either you will have difficulty getting to sleep, or you may ping awake at 3am, with your head ruminating over all these issues.

 

Talking therapy, such as hypnotherapy can, of course, help you cope better with life generally, so you gradually find yourself worrying less, which means you stand a better chance of drifting off nicely.

 

But there are things you can do to help yourself, using a calming CD, having an aromatherapy bath, or employing distraction tactics to calm an over-busy mind can all help.

 

2. Allow yourself sufficient time to get a good 7 or 8 hours’ sleep

 

All of the research into the detrimental effects of lack of sleep, suggest that most of us need 7 to 8 hours’ sleep a night.

 

I have had a number of clients who lead extremely busy lives, filling every moment with work, exercise or social activities such that either they are ‘wired’ when they go to bed, or they simply don’t allow enough time to get those 7 to 8 hours.

 

So, arrange to have good couple of hours of down time before setting off to bed.  That means avoiding anything too stimulating, such as reading emails, watching the news or an exhilarating film, or getting wound up by social media posts.

 

3. Maintain a healthy sleep routine

 

Some clients report that they can sleep easily during the day or evening, but that sleep eludes them when they go to bed.

 

With the exception of a 20-30 minute power nap, it seems that any sleep that you have during the day impacts on the amount that you can sleep at night.

 

So, even though it’s difficult to avoid those urges to sleep during the day, staying awake until it’s time for bed should reap rewards.

 

Sleep well.

 

 

Spreading some happiness

I have just returned from a weekend’s lecturing in Manchester.  I and my colleague, Nicola Griffiths, travel up once a month to run the Clifton Practice Hypnotherapy Training (CPHT) 10-month diploma course.

 

We’re over half-way through our second course and this weekend some of last year’s graduates arrived for group supervision with their supervisor.  That gave us the opportunity to catch up with them and see how they are doing, and it was wonderful to hear the difference they are making with their clients, now that they are qualified and running their own practices.

 

There were similar success stories from our current students, too, and it got me thinking about the ripple effect that training has. CPHT founder and lecturer, David Newton has trained many hundreds of students over the years, including me and Nicola. 

 

We’re now lecturers for a couple of schools each and between us we have trained well over a hundred students. The lecturers for the other CPHT schools in the network will have trained hundreds of students too.

 

The hundreds of graduates from these schools will see many thousands of clients between them over the course of a year, making a difference to their lives in profound and very positive ways. All from the vision and teaching of one man, David Newton.

 

Thinking about this reminded me of an incredible study published in the British Medical Journal back in 2008 which demonstrated that happiness spreads like a contagion.  The research was carried out by the Harvard Medical School and found that one person’s happiness triggers a chain reaction, which spreads their happiness to their friends, and to the friends’ friends, and on to the friends’ friends’ friends.

 

So, happiness spreads up to three degrees of separation.  The effect is stronger the closer you are to the individual and can last up to a year.

 

The Science Daily reported on the study at the time and highlighted the findings:

 

"Using the Center for Epidemiological Studies Depression Index (a standard metric) that study participants completed, the researchers found that when an individual becomes happy, a friend living within a mile experiences a 25 percent increased chance of becoming happy. A co-resident spouse experiences an 8 percent increased chance, siblings living within one mile have a 14 percent increased chance, and for next door neighbors, 34 percent.

But the real surprise came with indirect relationships. Again, while an individual becoming happy increases his friend's chances, a friend of that friend experiences a nearly 10 percent chance of increased happiness, and a friend of *that* friend has a 5.6 percent increased chance—a three-degree cascade."

 

You can read the full BMJ report here: BMJ Report

 

And the Science Daily article here:  Science Daily Article

 

So, all of those thousands of clients of CPHT graduates that have gained a more enjoyable experience of life will have passed their happiness on to many, many thousands of others.

 

You can see why I love my job, both as a hypnotherapist and as a CPHT lecturer, the impact of the therapy is awesome!